14 Quotes to Buff Up Your Leadership Skills

Few are born to lead. Instead, we acquire leadership skills throughout our professional journey. Everything from mindset to emotional intelligence and sound decision-making capabilities play into our capacity to guide others successfully.
Below are fourteen quotes to help you buff up your leadership skills.
Quotes to Grow Your Leadership Skills

Quote 1: Be open-minded. Embrace being wrong. Free yourself of preconceptions. Talk less, listen more. Question everything, even yourself. – Karen Salmansohn

Quote 2: When you hear only what you want to hear, you’re not listening. When you read only to confirm what you know, you’re not learning. Stretch yourself. That’s how you grow. – Marc & Angel

Quote 3: Always be teachable. You are not always right. There is always something to be learned. – Lauren Fortenberry

Quote 4: The mind is like water. When it’s turbulent, it’s challenging to see. When it’s calm, everything becomes clear. – Prasad Mahes

Quote 5: He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. – Lao Tzu

Quote 6: Explain your anger instead of expressing it, and you will open the door to solutions instead of arguments. – Ruth Ghatourey

Quote 7: 10% of conflict is due to differences in opinion, and 90% is due to delivery and tone of voice. – @masteringlawofattraction

Quote 8: I can respect any person who can put their ego aside and say, I made a mistake, I apologize, and I am correcting the behavior. – Sylvester McNutt

Quote 9: The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world. – Plato

Quote 10: Compassionate people ask for what they need. They say no when they need to, and when they say yes, they mean it. They are compassionate because their boundaries keep them out of resentment. – Brene Brown

Quote 11: When you find yourself in situations of impossible demands, choose relationships first. – Sarah Boyd

Quote 12: Your gifts, leadership, purpose—none of it is about you. Instead, a life of significance is about serving others. It’s about guiding those who need your talents—those gifts, that leadership, and purpose. – Kevin Hall

Quote 13: If we are not a little bit uncomfortable every day, we’re not growing. All the good stuff is outside our comfort zone. – Jack Canfield

Quote 14: There are no limits to what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking. – Brian Tracy
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YBGR Partners With Many Rivers Whole Health to Strengthen Youth Transitions to Adult Care

Did you know young adults ages 18–25 have the highest rate of serious mental illness? Research also shows that during the transition into adulthood, when gaps form in care, the risk of psychiatric hospitalization and ER visits rises. Strengthening how we’re transitioning youth into adult mental health care is essential to closing those gaps.
Great Outcomes Happen When We Work Together
When providers collaborate, Montanans experience stronger outcomes.
That’s why we’re proud to announce our partnership with Many Rivers Whole Health, expanding support for youth in Cascade County as they move from children’s services into adult mental health care. This collaboration reinforces our commitment to stability and continuity as youth take their next steps.
Pictured above are Holly Kober and Linda Robbins from Many Rivers alongside Brittany Olson, Therapist, and Mariah Lefebre, Lead Mental Health Worker, from our North Skyline Group Home in Great Falls.
Why Transitional Care Matters
As youth age out of children’s services, the need for support doesn’t disappear—it shifts. Without a coordinated handoff into adult care, young adults can face gaps that increase the likelihood of crisis and instability.
Our partnership with Many Rivers strengthens that handoff and supports transitioning youth into adult mental health care in a way that keeps their progress moving forward.
Building Stronger Foundations for Montanans
Through this partnership, youth in Cascade County enter adulthood with a solid footing—supported by a seamless move to adult services. As we improve how we’re transitioning youth into adult mental health care, we’re strengthening Montana’s system of care and building stronger foundations for Montanans.
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Youth Satisfaction Survey Highlights the Power of Caring People

What does healing feel like for the kids in our therapeutic group homes? This year’s youth satisfaction survey offers a direct look, showing how caring adults shape the experience of the youth we serve.
Every response reflects what matters most to the kids in our community-rooted residential care: feeling supported, staying connected to family, and having opportunities to grow. Their feedback guides us as we strengthen programs and continue building supportive, relationship-centered environments across our homes.
What Kids Say Makes the Difference
Youth shared what they value most in their experience with us. Here’s a snapshot of their feedback (edited for readability and privacy):
“The staff are very caring.”
“I’m able to see my family every week. Staff also care about us.”
“I like that they give me an opportunity to correct my mistakes and move on.”
Three strengths stood out across our homes:
- Nutritious, consistent meals supporting physical and emotional well-being
- Trauma-informed, de-escalation-based care
- Coaching around prescribed medications to empower youth in their treatment
Strong Results Across Our Residential Programs
Survey scores reflected high satisfaction, with every home and every question averaging above 3.5.
Lewis and Clark (Helena), North Skyline (Great Falls), and our Boulder campus each received scores above 4.0, reinforcing the high-quality, relationship-focused care happening within our therapeutic group homes.
For families served through our community-based services, watch for a survey arriving by email in the weeks ahead.
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Connection’s Key! 15 Quotes for Raising Strong Kids

Are you looking for the secret formula for raising strong kids? You’re in the right place—because the answer is simpler than most people realize.
Parenting is about connection.
The relationship you build with your child shapes the way they learn, grow, and understand themselves. Connection helps kids feel secure and open to guidance—and it becomes the foundation for every future relationship they have.
Below are fifteen powerful quotes about parenting with connection to raise strong, confident kids.
Quotes on Parenting Connection for Raising Strong Kids

Quote 1: The relationship you have with your child shapes the structure and function of their brain. – Dr. Dan Siegel

Quote 2: Kids learn best when they like their teacher and when they think their teacher likes them. – Gordon Neufeld

Quote 3: If you don’t listen eagerly to the little stuff when they’re little, they won’t tell you the big stuff when they’re big because to them, all of it has always been big stuff. – C.M. Wallace

Quote 4: Our goal with kids is to maintain a connection with their hearts while teaching skills, boundaries, & behavior. If we lose their heart during the process, nothing else will matter. – Sarah Boyd

Quote 5: If kids can trust you with the little stuff, they will come to you with the big stuff. – Dr. Laura Markham

Quote 6: Children don’t just need to be loved. They need to know that nothing they do will change the fact that they’re loved. – Alfie Kohn

Quote 7: Connection is a child’s deepest need and a parent’s highest influence. – Lelia Schott

Quote 8: You can have the best wisdom to share with your child but without a connected relationship, they won’t hear it. When they feel seen, then they can hear. – @The_Therapist_Parent

Quote 9: It turns out that what you’re mostly looking for as a parent is influence, not control. – Ross Greene

Quote 10: What matters most? It’s not the rules. It’s the conversations we have with our kids about the rules we make. – Dr. Lisa Damour

Quote 11: As a child, I just needed to know someone was on my side without having to work so hard to prove myself. – Big Little Feelings

Quote 12: I never want my kids to mess up and think, “Dad’s going to kill me.” Instead, I want their first thought to be, “I need to call my dad.” – Unknown

Quote 13: If your children fear you, they cannot trust you. If they do not trust you, they cannot learn from you. – Lori Petro

Quote 14: When we apologize and repair, we teach our kids how to make amends when they make mistakes in relationships. – Tina Payne Bryson

Quote 15: If children feel safe, they take risks, ask questions, make mistakes, learn to trust, share their feelings, and grow. – Alfie Kohn
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Annual Kalispell Thanksgiving Dinner Brings Families Together

What brings families back to the same table year after year? A place where they feel supported, welcomed, and connected.
This week, families gathered once again in Kalispell for our annual Thanksgiving dinner hosted by our Child Welfare Prevention and Support Services (CWPSS) team. Local families, CASA workers, and partners from Child and Family Services joined us for an evening of sharing a meal, reconnecting, and strengthening the relationships that help kids thrive.
A Tradition Rooted in Family and Community Connection
This Thanksgiving dinner tradition began years ago in Kalispell with Berni McDonald, CWPSS Program Supervisor, and Tammy Eads, Administrative Supervisor—long before either joined our YBGR family.

Pictured: Tammy Eads, Kalispell Administrative Supervisor, and Berni McDonald, CWPSS Supervisor, at last night’s Thanksgiving celebration for families. This holiday tradition began years ago with Tammy and Berni—long before they joined the YBGR team. The two created it to support Flathead County families.
What began as a simple effort to bring people together has grown into a meaningful tradition for current families, program graduates, and our community partners, who form a critical network of support for the Flathead County residents we serve.
Since becoming part of the YBGR umbrella of care, our Child Welfare Prevention and Support Services program in Kalispell has helped dozens of families find stability and build strong foundations for the future.
Expanding Child Welfare Prevention and Support Services Across Montana
Because of the impact in Kalispell and the growing need statewide, our Child Welfare Prevention and Support Services program is now expanding across our community-based care locations.
The program partners with Child and Family Services—blending parent education, parent coaching, and care coordination to prevent separation, support reunification efforts, and strengthen family systems.
Events like this dinner show what that work looks like in action: connection, consistency, and a community that shows up for families.
To everyone who made this night possible—and to the families who open their lives to us—thank you. Your trust, care, and commitment are valued. We’re grateful for you.
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YBGR Polson Expands Community-Based Care in Lake County

Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch (YBGR) continues to extend its mission of caring people, preparing youth for life through the YBGR Polson office, part of the organization’s growing network of community-based services across Montana.
The Lake County team—Anna Paige, Home Support Services Specialist; Siera Chowning, Therapist; and Timothy Sellars, Targeted Case Manager—provides therapy, skill-building, and family support to help youth stay connected to their homes and schools. Their work strengthens family systems and builds the resilience needed for kids to thrive within their communities.
Strengthening Families Across Montana
Through YBGR’s community-based programs, families can access the care they need without having to travel far from home. From Polson to Billings and beyond, the care we provide touches the lives of children and families in nearly every county across Montana. Our teams work side by side with families in homes, schools, and community settings—empowering youth to grow stronger every day.
We’re grateful for the commitment of the YBGR Polson crew and for the Lake County families who partner with us in this vital work.
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How to Combat Caregiver Burnout Over the Holidays

Who doesn’t love the holidays? The shimmering lights, family gatherings, sweet treats, fireworks, and the sparkle of joy on kids’ faces as they tear open gifts on a cold December morning.
But as any parent knows, that magic doesn’t just happen—it takes work. And when you pile holiday preparations on top of an already full plate, caregiver burnout can creep in fast.
What Is Caregiver Burnout?
Caregiver burnout is the emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion that comes from caring for others while neglecting your own needs. It can show up as irritability, fatigue, headaches, sleep issues, or feeling detached from those you love.
Symptoms of Caregiver Burnout
- A change in attitude from feeling loving to feeling negative and unconcerned
- Withdrawing from friends and family
- Losing interest in things you previously enjoyed
- Feeling crabby, hopeless, helpless, and exhausted
- Changes in eating habits and body weight
- Different sleep patterns.
- Feeling under the weather or getting sick often
Do any of these sound familiar? If so, you’re not alone.
Many parents say the holiday season brings high levels of stress—and that tension can spill over, dimming the joy for you and your kids.
How to Prevent Caregiver Burnout During the Holidays
Most of us juggle multiple roles—parent, partner, professional, friend—and adding “holiday planner” to the list can feel like too much. Below are a few ways to reduce holiday stress and protect your well-being.
Ask for help.
You don’t have to do it all. Let others lend a hand—whether that’s asking a friend to bring dessert, a partner to take over bedtime, or a grandparent to host one event this year.
Don’t overdo it.
Perfection isn’t the goal—connection is. Simplify traditions, say no when needed, and focus on what truly matters to your family.
Talk it out.
When stress builds, share what’s on your mind. Sometimes a simple conversation with someone you trust can lighten the emotional load.
Take a break.
Rest isn’t indulgent—it’s essential. Step away for a quiet walk, schedule a sitter, or carve out an evening to unwind and recharge.
Seek professional support if you need it.
If your exhaustion lingers for more than two weeks and rest doesn’t help, it may be time to talk with a doctor or therapist. You don’t have to navigate burnout alone.
You’re Not Just a Caregiver—You’re Human
This season, give yourself permission to slow down and savor what really counts. A calmer, more present you is the best gift your family could ask for.
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Celebrating the Reopening of Our River’s Edge Group Home Space

Our Billings Group Home team gathered this week, welcoming crewmates from the Ranch and across the state for a festive, Halloween-themed tour of our homes, including the newly renovated River’s Edge space.
The event brought together caring people from across our network who deliver care through our therapeutic group homes in Billings and beyond. Between laughter, costumes, and reconnecting, the celebration reflected the teamwork and commitment that fuel our mission.
Strengthening Care Across Montana
For youth struggling with behaviors that impact their safety, daily functioning, or ability to attend school, we provide structured, family-style care through our Therapeutic Group Homes in Billings, Boulder, Helena, and Great Falls. Each home offers 24-hour supervision, treatment, and advocacy in a supportive community setting—helping youth find stability and build resilience.
Across Montana, our residential group home and Ranch teams provide care for youth in need of safe, structured environments that support their path toward healing. Every day, they create nurturing spaces where kids grow stronger, build relationships, and move toward brighter futures.
We’re grateful for their dedication and for the life-changing work they do daily with the youth in our care.
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6 Ways to Create Space for Important Conversations

Every day, we navigate important conversations—with coworkers, friends, and family members. Some are easy, while others require us to slow down, listen deeply, and respond with care.
Our ability to self-regulate and remain emotionally grounded plays a critical role in how effectively we communicate. To truly be present with others, we need to create a safe emotional climate, both within ourselves and in the environment around us.
How to Create Space for Important Conversations
Below are six ways you can create a safe space for important conversations with others.
Be Transparent About Your Limitations
When people know what to expect, they feel more comfortable opening up. Be upfront about your time or focus so the other person knows you’re present within clear boundaries.
“Thank you so much for coming in. I do have a meeting at 11:00, but that still gives us a good chunk of time to chat. What’s up?”
Transparency builds trust. It communicates that you value the other person’s time while being honest about your own.
Be Consistent and Predictable
Predictability creates safety. When others can anticipate how you’ll respond, they’re less likely to feel anxious or defensive.
Speak in an even, calm tone—what we like to call your “DJ voice.” Steady, low, and measured speech signals that you’re approachable and in control, even in emotionally charged moments.
Mind Your Demeanor
Words matter, but nonverbal cues often speak louder. Notice your body language.
Unclench your jaw, relax your shoulders, and soften your eyes. A calm, open posture communicates empathy and emotional steadiness before you even say a word.
Prepare Before Important Meetings
Take five to ten minutes before meetings or conversations to transition out of what you were working on. Ground yourself with a few deep breaths, clear your mind, and set an intention for the discussion.
That slight pause helps you show up mentally and emotionally present—not distracted or reactive.
Know When to Reschedule
If you’re not in the right frame of mind, it’s okay to hit pause. Going into a tough conversation while stressed or preoccupied rarely leads to connection.
Rescheduling isn’t avoidance—it’s respect. It ensures you can give the other person your full attention when it truly matters.
Creating a Culture of Safety
Emotional safety begins with self-awareness. When we take the time to regulate ourselves first, we make space for understanding, empathy, and trust to grow. Whether at home, in the workplace, or within our teams, safe conversations start with grounded people.
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Strengthening Families in Montana: Small Acts of Care

What does “Caring people, preparing youth for life” look like in action? Sometimes, it’s as simple as showing up with a cake.
In Kalispell, a child in our Child Welfare Prevention and Support Services (CWPSS) program recently celebrated their first birthday. When the father couldn’t bring something to mark the day, Michael Palumbo, Family Unification Specialist, stepped in—picking up a smash cake and a candle so the milestone wouldn’t go uncelebrated.
It was a small gesture that spoke volumes about the heart of our mission. Acts of care like this remind us that caring for children and families isn’t only about services—it’s about people who notice the little things and go the extra mile.
Strengthening Families Across Montana
Our CWPSS program partners with Child and Family Services to strengthen families and keep kids safely at home whenever possible. Through parent education, supervised visitation, and care coordination, our team helps prevent separation and supports reunification—building resilient, stable family systems across Montana.
These efforts are part of a broader network of family support services in Montana, helping children thrive in their own homes and communities. Every day, caring professionals like Michael Palumbo show what it means to be caring people, preparing youth for life—meeting families where they are and ensuring that no milestone, big or small, goes unnoticed.
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