4 Tips to Help Kids Impacted by Trauma Feel Safe & Heal
Did you know that two-thirds of kids experience trauma during childhood? It’s a staggering number. Right?
Here are a few ways that trauma can affect children’s overall well-being:
The impact of trauma can range widely, depending on many different factors, including a child’s relationships with caring adults, social supports, and unique personal characteristics.
And often, childhood trauma can even influence children’s ability to form healthy, trusting bonds with caregivers.
Here are a few tips to help you build the trust you need to guide kids with trauma history and help them heal.
Provide structure
Create a routine and ensure that your child understands rules and expectations clearly. Doing so will create a sense of safety and help them thrive.
Use positive discipline
Punitive, physical, or inconsistent discipline can be a trigger for kids with a history of trauma and be counterproductive to your ability to guide them.
Here are some positive discipline methods you can leverage:
- Ignore mild misbehavior
- Praise good behavior
- Frame things as incentives versus pointing out negative consequences
- Redirect attention
- Offer choices
- Provide rewards
- Use time in vs. time outs
Be consistent & show warmth
Trust in any relationship is built on consistent positive interactions. Show warmth towards your child, even during conflict and discipline. And if you slip up, make sure to repair the situation with an apology and good communication.
Be sensitive to trauma
Be mindful of a child’s background and avoid putting them in a position where they feel cornered or threatened. For example, if children have a history of sexual trauma, be mindful of their physical boundaries and unexpected touch.
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8 Signs of Depression in Kids that Parents Miss
Do you know the signs of depression in kids? They’re easy to miss. Yet, when overlooked, the outcome can be tragic.
Data shows that suicide is the second leading cause of death in youth, and a significant portion of those who pass are confronting the condition.
Below are eight indicators of childhood depression that every parent needs to be familiar with.
Signs of Depression in Kids
Deep & Persistent Sadness
Children with depression experience sadness that persists for two or more weeks. And it can be profound! They may have thoughts of suicide or talk about hurting themselves.
Learn more: 9 Warning Signs of Teen Suicide Parents Need to Know
Problems at School
Have you recently noticed a decline in your child’s school performance? Kids confronting depression often have a hard time concentrating, making decisions, and can be quicker to anger or emotional outbursts.
Be on the watch for a sudden drop in grades, school refusal, and new behavioral issues cropping up.
Changes in Weight or Eating Habits
Has your child recently lost or gained weight? Significant fluctuations in body size or sudden changes in eating habits may signify depression.
A Shift in Sleep Patterns
Have you noticed a change in your child’s sleep patterns? Maybe they’re struggling to fall asleep, waking in the middle of the night, or even sleeping far more than usual?
Depression can impact kids’ rest and wake cycles. So, pay attention to sudden shifts in your child’s sleep routine. It may be a sign that something more is going on.
Changes in Mood & Behavior
Does it feel like your child’s demeanor changed overnight? Take notice if they’ve suddenly developed a more negative attitude or are expressing feelings of hopelessness, guilt, or worthlessness. And if they seem more agitated, irritable, or are quicker to get upset, it could also be a sign of depression.
Decrease in Self-Esteem
Does your once confident kid now seem to need frequent reassurance? A marked decrease in self-esteem is frequently an indicator of depression. Children with the condition tend to think negatively and very critically about themselves.
Withdrawal
Kids experiencing depression will frequently withdraw socially from friends and family. So, pay attention if your child no longer wants to participate in activities they once enjoyed.
Physical Pain
Depression is more than emotional pain—symptoms can frequently manifest physically. So look out for persistent fatigue, frequent headaches, stomach aches, or any other sudden unexplained discomfort. And remember, it’s essential to rule out underlying medical conditions with a doctor.
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Do any of the signs and symptoms above sound familiar? Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch (YBGR) provides a wide range of wraparound mental health services designed to help kids heal. Contact us online to get a child support today.
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Renovations Underway at River’s Edge Group Home
Big changes are underway at River’s Edge, one of our therapeutic group homes serving youth in Billings. With generous support from the Charles M. Bair Family Trust, renovations have officially begun—starting with brand-new, energy-efficient windows.
River’s Edge provides essential mental health support and safe housing for youth in need of stability, structure, and care in a family-style environment. These renovations are part of a more significant effort to strengthen the environment where healing happens every day.
Investing in the Future of River’s Edge
Thanks to HB 872 grant funding through the State of Montana, the next phase of improvements at River’s Edge includes new roofing, siding, and doors. These upgrades enhance safety, reduce energy costs, and support long-term sustainability—ensuring the home can continue to serve Montana kids for years to come.
Over time, the upgrades will set the stage for sustainably expanding our capacity to serve more kids through therapeutic group homes—a critical intermediary level of treatment between PRTF care at the Ranch and community-based services.
Renovations like these reflect our commitment to building safe, welcoming environments where youth can thrive. As we continue improving our facilities across the state, the work at River’s Edge marks a meaningful step forward in strengthening access to care.
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A Timeline of Impact: Exploring YBGR History
How much do you know about the history of Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch (YBGR)? The timeline above brings it to life.
Tucked behind the dining hall, the Ranch library holds more than just books—it showcases a powerful visual display of our history. This timeline reflects decades of impact, growth, and transformation.
In the photograph above, Jake Mullins, HR Recruiter, stands beside this timeline, underscoring its significance. More than just a collection of dates, it tells the story of the mission that has guided us for over 67 years. Through challenges, growth, and change, our commitment to youth and families has remained steadfast.
More Than a Timeline—A Legacy of Caring That Stands the Test of Time
Much has changed over the years, but our historic slogan continues to ring true. Still painted on the back of the sign above the entryway to campus, it serves as a lasting reminder: “It sure makes a difference to know someone cares.”
We are grateful for the many caring individuals across YBGR who continue to carry our mission forward: “Caring people, preparing youth for life.”
Your work makes a lasting impact—just like the history we continue to write every day.
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43 Years of Caring: Laurie Moore’s Legacy at YBGR
Recognize this little lady? It’s Laurie Moore, Program Manager at the Ranch! Last month, Laurie celebrated an incredible 43 years at Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch (YBGR).
When asked for a photo, Laurie opted for a baby picture over a recent one—so we’re rolling with it! But don’t let that sweet face fool you. Laurie is tough as nails when it comes to serving kids with integrity and standing by her team. She embodies our mission: Caring people, preparing youth for life.
A Lifelong Commitment to Kids and Community
Laurie’s dedication runs deep. Over the years, she has not only invested in the lives of countless youth but also mentored teammates as they grow into caring professionals. She has watched YBGR evolve—from a small refuge in Billings to a statewide network delivering mental health care across Montana.
Thank You, Laurie!
Laurie, your commitment to our mission, your crewmates, and the kids we serve is nothing short of inspiring. Your work has shaped lives, strengthened our purpose, and left a lasting impact on countless youth.
Words can’t express our gratitude for your sacrifice, service, and loyalty over the years. We are so fortunate to have you on our team!
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Honoring Remarkable Women – meet YBGR’s Jasmine Hansen
8 Tips to Master Active Listening
What’s active listening? You close your mouth and let the other person speak. Right?
Not quite. There’s more to it than that.
How to Practice Active Listening
Here’s a guide to active listening inspired by the book, The Empathetic Workplace by Katharine Manning, that you can draw on for trauma-informed conversations in and out of the workplace.
Encouragement
Make brief and gentle sounds such as “ahh” & “got it” to encourage the other person to continue their story, ensuring it’s subtle and keeps the focus on them.
Eye contact
Where we focus is what we care about. That said, read the other party—if they refuse to make eye contact, it could signal they are uncomfortable, and you should follow suit.
Mirroring
We mimic the body language of the person we’re speaking with when we are fully engaged. Doing it too much can be creepy, but a subtle nod to it will create ease in a conversation.
Looping
Repeat what the other person says as closely as possible to their exact words.
Clarification
Seeking clarification shows the other person you are listening, and ensures you understand what they’re saying.
Ask open-ended questions
Typically, open-ended questions begin with what, where, when, and why and are a great way to kick-start a conversation if the speaker peters out or, conversely, get it back on track if they are heading off on a tangent.
If they’re triggered, you will notice they either become emphatic, and the conversation will become less productive, or they will shut down and stop talking altogether.
Read demeanor
Be mindful that when someone shares a story of trauma, it can be re-traumatizing—back off if it appears that responding to questions is difficult and allow a break if needed.
Body language
Keep body language loose and calm, maintaining an open stance while facing the other person. Be careful not to look down, out the window, or at their hands.
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Strength in Tradition: Youth in Wellbriety Create Medicine Wheel
At the heart of our work lies a deep commitment to healing—not just in mind, but in body, spirit, and community. This morning, youth in our Wellbriety program at the Ranch created a powerful symbol of their journey: a Medicine Wheel.
Wellbriety: A Culturally Rooted Path to Healing
Guided by Josie Brady, our Native American Services Coordinator and a White Bison-certified facilitator in Medicine Wheel + 12 Steps for Youth, the exercise mapped values across all four directions, tying them into the 12-step recovery process.
More than just a recovery program, Wellbriety integrates culture, spirituality, and personal growth. Each week, youth participate in smudging ceremonies, talking circles, and reflection—fostering balance, strength, and long-term sobriety.
These traditional practices reconnect them to their roots while providing a strong foundation for lasting wellness.
The Power of the Medicine Wheel in Recovery
The Medicine Wheel is a sacred symbol in many Native traditions, representing balance and the interconnectedness of life. The four directions (North, South, East, West), are often used as a guide for living a balanced life and achieving spiritual harmony.
In Wellbriety, it serves as a visual guide to healing, mapping emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being across all four directions. By incorporating these teachings, youth gain a deeper understanding of their journey toward sobriety and personal growth.
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YBGR’s Supported Employment Program Helps Youth Thrive
At Yellowstone Boys & Girls Ranch (YBGR), preparing youth for life means more than academics—it’s about building the skills, confidence, and opportunities young people need to excel in the real world. That’s exactly what Elizabeth Campoy, Supported Employment Supervisor, and Erica Kern, Supported Employment Specialist, are passionate about.
Building Skills That Last a Lifetime
Every day, Elizabeth, Erica, and their team make a difference by helping youth gain the tools they need to thrive—not just in the workforce but in life. Their work goes beyond job placement. It’s about building confidence, independence, and resilience.
Through the Supported Employment Program, they provide:
- Career coaching to help explore strengths and interests
- Resume writing guidance that gives a competitive edge
- Interview preparation to boost confidence
- On-site job support to help youth succeed long-term
It’s all about making sure youth are prepared—not just for their first job, but for everything life throws their way.
Partnering with the Community
A big part of the program’s success comes from strong partnerships with local employers in Yellowstone County. These relationships open doors, connecting youth with meaningful job opportunities that fit their interests and strengths.
By working closely with businesses, Elizabeth and Erica make sure youth aren’t just placed in jobs—they’re set up to succeed in them.
The Impact Speaks for Itself
The results say it all:
- 337 youth served through the Supported Employment Program
- Over 500 jobs filled in Yellowstone County
The numbers above, tallied in December 2024, represent lives changed, futures brightened, and young people stepping confidently into adulthood.
It’s About More Than Jobs
What sets YBGR’s Supported Employment Program apart is the focus on long-term success.
It’s about:
- Building confidence so youth believe in themselves
- Teaching resilience so they can overcome challenges
- Providing life skills that serve them well into the future
Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about the job—it’s about preparing youth to take on the world.
Thank You to the Team Making It Happen
A huge thank you to Elizabeth Campoy, Erica Kern, and the entire Supported Employment team for living out our mission of “Caring people, preparing youth for life.”
Because of your dedication, hundreds of young people are stepping into the future with the tools and confidence they need to build successful, meaningful lives—and that’s something worth celebrating.
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Therapy Dogs Help Kids Heal at the Ranch
Have you met the therapy dogs who are making a difference daily at the Ranch? Meet Luca, Elvis, Cooper, and Emmy Lou!
These four aren’t just beloved companions—they’re four-legged therapists helping youth heal, build trust, and regulate emotions in Billings. Their presence provides comfort, connection, and stability for kids who need it most.
Meet Our Canine Team and Their People
Therapy dogs do more than bring smiles—they play a key role in supporting the emotional well-being of the youth in our care.
- Dr. Taylor Clark, Occupational Therapist, with her therapy pup, Luca
- Mackenzie Warren, Equestrian Specialist, with her therapy pup, Elvis.
- Cooper and Emmy Lou with Lisa Frazier, retired Director of Recreational Services
For many kids, therapy dogs offer something people sometimes can’t—a calming, judgment-free presence that makes it easier to open up, build trust, and regulate emotions.
Reducing stress and anxiety
Just being near a therapy dog has been shown to lower stress and help kids feel more at ease.
Building trust and social connections
Many of the youth we serve have experienced trauma. Therapy dogs create a safe space to rebuild trust and connection.
Supporting emotional regulation
Their presence can help kids self-soothe and navigate emotions.
Providing unconditional support
Therapy dogs offer consistent, reliable companionship, giving kids a sense of security and belonging.
A Lasting Impact
We see the impact of our four-legged therapists firsthand every day out at the Ranch. Their support goes beyond the moment—helping kids feel safe, seen, and supported as they navigate their healing journey.
We want to thank Lisa, Mackenzie, Taylor, and our incredible therapy dogs—Luca, Elvis, Cooper, and Emmy Lou. The work you do matters, and the difference you make is lasting.
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