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4 Tips to Help Kids with Anxiety

4 Tips to Help Kids with Anxiety

4 Tips to Help Kids with Anxiety

Does your child wrestle with fearful or anxious feelings? If so, they’re not alone! Anxiety is common. In fact, it’s one of the most frequent mental health issues children face.

Surveys show that in 2021, 30-40% of kids grappled with feelings of anxiousness. And as parents, it’s essential we know how to support them.

Here are some signs of anxiety in children to look out for:

Signs of Anxiety

Do any of the signs above sound familiar? If so, we want to help! Here are a few tips on coaching your child through anxious feelings.

How to Help Kids with Anxiety

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Tip #1: Relax their environment

Anxiety is a powerful emotion, and kids who grapple with it can easily get overwhelmed. One of the best things you can do when your child is feeling anxious is to reduce sensory stimulation, activity commitments, and pressure on their performance.

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Tip #2: Help them name their worries & fears

When children have a good understanding of their feelings, they’re better able to cope with them. And that’s backed by research! In 2003, a study found that kids who could label their emotions in first grade had fewer anxiety symptoms four years down the road.

So, how does labeling emotions work? When kids name their feelings, it reduces the physiological stress response and shame attached to them. It also normalizes the human experience and helps them develop a healthy EQ.

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Tip #3: Coach them to be brave

The only way to overcome fear is to face it. If we consistently run away from what makes us anxious, our anxiety only grows.

Support your child in confronting their fears, but make sure to move at a pace that feels comfortable and remind them – “You can do hard things.”

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Tip #4: Reach out for support

Is your child struggling? If so, we’re here to help! With everything from therapy to in-home caregiver support and more, we provide services tailored to the unique needs of each child we serve designed to empower families in treatment.

Contact us online to learn more about getting your child support through any of our locations across Montana.

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Strengthening Families Month— Stronger Families, Stronger Futures

Strengthening Families Month— Stronger Families, Stronger Futures

Strengthening Families Month— Stronger Families, Stronger Futures

Did you know that April is Strengthening Families Month? It’s a reminder that building a strong, resilient tomorrow starts with investing in families today.

At YBGR, strengthening families is at the heart of everything we do. Every service we offer—whether it’s delivered in the community, our group homes, or at the Ranch—is designed to strengthen connections, build resilience, and equip kids and caregivers with the tools they need to thrive.

Last year, we showed up for more than 3,600 youth and their families—delivering critical care that touched lives across nearly every corner of Montana. Behind each number is a story of hope, healing, and strength—the result of a community rallying around kids and families when it matters most.

Every connection we build today creates a stronger foundation for tomorrow. When kids have stable relationships, practical skills, and caring support systems, they’re better prepared to navigate challenges, achieve their goals, and contribute to stronger communities.

How We Strengthen Families Across Montana

From crisis intervention to ongoing skill-building and beyond, our continuum of care is built to meet families where they are—walking alongside them every step of the way.

Whether we’re supporting a family through a challenging time or helping kids develop skills that last a lifetime, the focus stays the same: strengthening families to strengthen futures.

Our teams work in homes, schools, and communities across Montana, delivering care that helps families stay connected, build resilience, and move forward with confidence.

Learn more about the care we deliver across Montana.

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YBGR Butte Brings Easter Joy to Youth and Families

Butte Community-Based Services Brings Easter Joy to Youth and Families

YBGR Butte Brings Easter Joy to Youth and Families

Earlier this month, our Butte community-based services crew brought Easter to life for the youth and families they serve.

The team organized egg hunts at the park, hosted crafts and games at the office, and even made hand-dyed eggs—courtesy of Madelin Speer, Targeted Case Manager, and her chickens. Our kids spent the day laughing, creating, and connecting with each other and the caring adults around them.

Simple moments like these leave a real impact. They build positive memories, strengthen trust, and remind kids they are seen and valued.

Celebrating Connection and Community

In Butte, our team creates spaces where youth feel connected, supported, and seen.

Activities like these give kids a chance to experience joy, connection, and moments of celebration. They strengthen trust, build resilience, and help youth keep moving forward with confidence.

Beyond the holidays, our Butte community-based services team works daily to strengthen families, build skills, and support youth in staying connected to the people and communities that matter most.

Thank You to Our Butte Community-Based Services Team

We’re grateful to our Butte team for bringing heart, joy, and connection to the kids and families we serve. No doubt, their care and commitment makes a difference.

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7 Ways to Practice Mindful Parenting—and Strengthen Every Relationship

7 Ways to Practice Mindful Parenting—and Strengthen Every Relationship

7 Ways to Practice Mindful Parenting—and Strengthen Every Relationship

Feeling the pressure to be a perfect parent? Mindful parenting offers a better path—one grounded in research showing that practicing presence, connection, and emotional awareness can lower family stress, strengthen parent-child bonds, and support healthy emotional development.

At its core, mindful parenting means bringing intentional, nonjudgmental awareness to your interactions with your child—staying open, present, and compassionate, even when things get tough. It’s not about perfection. It’s about embracing imperfection, navigating difficult emotions, and choosing to respond with intention instead of reacting on autopilot.

Practicing mindfulness deepens your bond with your children—and strengthens every relationship in your life.

7 Ways to Practice Mindful Parenting

Here are seven ways to bring mindfulness into your parenting—and beyond.

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Make space for your emotions.

You’ve likely heard the phrase, “what we resist persists”—and it’s true. Emotions that we push away tend to grow stronger.

Mindful parenting starts with allowing yourself to sit with your feelings without judgment. When big emotions surface, take a moment to pause, name what you’re feeling, and move through it with compassion.

The more we make space for our own emotions, the more space we create for others’ too.

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Practice acceptance.

Life isn’t perfect. Some days you’ll burn dinner, your kids will act out, and everything will feel off track. Mindful parenting is about releasing the illusion of control and meeting each moment as it is—not as you wish it would be.

Practicing acceptance with your kids builds your muscle to practice it with partners, friends, and coworkers too.

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Stay flexible.

Plans fall apart. Routines get disrupted. Kids—and adults—struggle with change. Mindful parenting invites you to stay flexible, pausing before reacting and responding thoughtfully instead.

Flexibility not only eases conflict with kids—it makes all your relationships more resilient.

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Lead with compassion.

When kids are hungry, tired, or overwhelmed, their behavior often spirals. Instead of focusing only on the behavior, mindful parenting invites us to look beneath it—to the need underneath. Compassion doesn’t eliminate boundaries; it makes them more human.

In every relationship, compassion opens doors that criticism never can.

Mindful Parenting - Practice Forgiveness

Forgive often.

Parenting offers daily lessons in forgiveness—for yourself and for your children. Mindful parenting reminds us that mistakes aren’t failures—they’re opportunities to repair and reconnect.

Learning to forgive in small moments with your child lays the groundwork for deeper forgiveness with everyone in your life.

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Practice gratitude.

Mindfulness and gratitude go hand in hand. When you intentionally notice the good—the moments of laughter, connection, and growth—you nurture a mindset of joy and abundance.

Gratitude naturally spills into how you show up with everyone, from your family to your community.

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Stay present.

The past is behind you, and the future isn’t guaranteed. All you truly have is this moment.

Mindful parenting is about showing up fully—whether you’re reading a bedtime story, cooking dinner together, or simply listening.

Presence transforms relationships, creating the trust and connection we all crave.

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12 Quote Guide to Raising Teens

A 12 Quote Guide to Raising Teens

12 Quote Guide to Raising Teens

Who said raising teens was easy? I don’t know about you, but I always thought things would get easier as my kids got older. But once they reached puberty, parenting became a whole new playing field.

Raising teens means your people skills need to be on point. Empathy, mindful communications, patience—all are essential for guiding your soon-to-be adult.

Below are twelve quotes on raising teens.

12 Quotes to Guide You in Raising Teens

Quote 1 - No matter what kind of day you had today

#1: Don’t ever pass over an opportunity for connection with your teen.

Quote: No matter what kind of day you had today, if your teen comes to you and wants to talk or hang out, drop everything and do it. Don’t miss a golden opportunity to connect on their terms. – Raising Teens Today

Quote 2 - Take the time to listen to your teenager

#2: Let your teen talk and really listen.

Quote: Take the time to listen to your teenager, no matter how emotional or ridiculous their statements sound to you. When someone doesn’t feel valued or heard, their desire to participate in a relationship disappears. – Parenting Teens & Tweens

Quote 3 - Sometimes, when our teens open up to us

#3: Sometimes, your teen doesn’t want you to fix anything. They just want to be heard.

Quote: Sometimes, when our teens open up to us, they are not looking for us to fix their problems. They are just looking for a safe place to share their pain. – Parenting Tweens & Teens

Quote 4 - The louder your teen gets, the quieter you should be

#4: Don’t meet your teen’s aggression with aggression. Squash it with good communication, empathy, and kindness.

Quote: The louder your teen gets, the quieter you should be. The angrier your teen becomes, the gentler you should become. The meaner your teen behaves, the kinder you should be. – Eva Rito

Quote 5 - I knew I was finally becoming the kind of parent

#5: Read between the lines and look for the communication behind the behavior.

Quote: I knew I was finally becoming the kind of parent my teen needed when I stopped taking everything they said personally and started becoming compassionately curious about what they were really trying to communicate. – Raising Teens Today

Quote 6 - When my child has made a poor decision

#6: Sometimes, natural consequences are the best teacher. No lectures are needed.

Quote: When my child has made a poor decision that has led to a painful lesson, the last thing they need is a side of belittlement and condescension from me. – Raising Teens Today

Quote 7 - Setting an example for healthy conflict resolution skills

#7: Your teen will learn to navigate relationships based on the one they have with you. Teach them healthy conflict resolution skills.

Quote: Setting an example for healthy conflict resolution skills and modeling forgiveness is better than never having conflict. – Inspired by Sarah Boyd

Quote 8 - Most teens need love and acceptance

#8: Your teen needs unconditional love and acceptance.

Quote: Most teens need love and acceptance a lot more than they need advice. – Bob Goff

Quote 9 - Nothing can shake our teen’s confidence more than being

#9: Help them develop a healthy sense of confidence.

Quote: Nothing can shake our teen’s confidence more than being fed the notion that something’s wrong with them simply because they don’t measure up in our eyes. – Raising Teens Today

Quote 10 - If a child can do advanced math, speak three languages

#10: EQ is critical! Foster it in your teen! Studies show that emotional intelligence is one of the single most significant contributing factors to success in adulthood.

Quote: If a child can do advanced math, speak three languages, and receive top grades, but can’t manage their emotions, practice conflict resolution, or handle stress—no amount of education is going to matter. – Unknown

Quote 11 - Children who are too obsessed with perfection

#11: Mistakes are part of the learning process. Don’t make your teen’s acceptance conditional on achievement.

Quote: Children who are too obsessed with perfection can become hard on themselves, have unreachable expectations, and avoid challenges. Work with them to develop a healthier attitude about achievement. – Benjamin Mizrahi

Quote 12 - Teenagers long to know that there’s nothing they can do

#12: Your teen needs to know that nothing will make you love them anymore or less.

Quote: Teenagers long to know that there’s nothing they can do to make us love them more, and there’s nothing they can do to make us love them less. – Mark Gregston

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YBGR Sponsors Pheasants Forever with Student-Raised Birds

YBGR Sponsors Pheasants Forever with Student-Raised Birds

YBGR Sponsors Pheasants Forever with Student-Raised Birds

We were proud to sponsor Pheasants Forever this year—supporting wildlife conservation and youth development in a truly hands-on way. As part of our partnership, we donated 50 pheasants raised with care by students at Yellowstone Academy at the Ranch through our Vocational Agriculture (Voc-Ag) program.

Building Responsibility & Life Skills Through Voc-Ag

At the Ranch, our Voc-Ag program gives youth the opportunity to raise pheasants from egg to maturity. With support from staff, students learn how to care for the birds throughout every stage of life—feeding, monitoring, and preparing them for release into the wild. Along the way, they build responsibility, confidence, and life skills that will serve them far beyond the classroom.

This hands-on experience also fosters a deep connection to the natural world and instills a lasting sense of pride in giving back—both to their community and to Montana’s wild places.

Partnering with Pheasants Forever to Support Conservation in Montana

Partnering with Pheasants Forever reflects our commitment to service, stewardship, and creating opportunities for youth to build skills for life. The organization plays a vital role in preserving wildlife habitats, promoting outdoor education, and ensuring that future generations of Montanans can experience the outdoors.

By contributing student-raised pheasants, we’re not only supporting local conservation efforts—we’re empowering youth through meaningful, real-world learning that benefits both people and the land.

It’s an honor to support Pheasants Forever’s mission while helping our students grow, give back, and make a lasting impact.

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3 Positive Parenting Keys for Hard Days

3 Positive Parenting Keys for Hard Days

3 Positive Parenting Keys for Hard Days

Let’s be real—parenting can feel overwhelming. With advice coming from every direction, it’s easy to get lost in the noise. When things feel especially tough, these positive parenting keys will help you refocus on what truly matters: connection, calm, and collaboration.

Below are three strategies that can bring clarity and intention back to your parenting—even on the hard days.

3 Positive Parenting Keys

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🗝️ Relationship Comes First

Rules and structure matter—but without relationship, they often fall flat. When kids feel emotionally connected and seen, they’re more likely to cooperate and trust your guidance. If that connection breaks down, you’ll often see it show up in their behavior.

Try this: Slow down. Listen without jumping to fix. Make time for small moments of connection. When your relationship is strong, everything else becomes easier.

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🗝️ Co-Regulate to Calm Emotions

Big emotions are contagious—and so is calm. Kids don’t learn to regulate their emotions on their own. First, they borrow our calm presence until they’re able to build that skill for themselves.

Try this: Take a deep breath together. Get down on their level. Offer your steady presence. This kind of co-regulation is a core piece of positive parenting and helps build emotional strength—for both of you.

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🗝️ Work Through Solutions Together

Is your child facing something challenging? Work through it with them, not for them. This teaches problem-solving, encourages trust, and builds their confidence over time.

Try this: Ask, “What do you think we can do about this?” Collaborating like this supports kids in building skills for life and can turn moments of conflict into connection—helping kids feel capable and seen.

Keep the Keys Close

You don’t need to have all the answers. On the hard days, come back to these three positive parenting keys:

🗝️ Build connection
🗝️ Co-regulate emotions
🗝️ Solve problems side by side

Let go of perfection—and stay focused on what matters most.

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Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch (YBGR) provides a full continuum of children’s behavioral health care designed to wrap families up in support and empower caregivers. Contact us today to learn more.

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Article adapted from a Facebook post by Krysten Taprell @ The Therapist Parent.

Safe Sacred Spaces

Safe Sacred Spaces Conference — Thursday, May 8th

Safe Sacred Spaces

Safe Sacred Spaces: Empowering People of Faith to Recognize & Respond to Mental Health Challenge

We’re honored to serve as the Billings host site for Safe Sacred Spaces, a statewide tour presented in partnership with the Montana Department of Health and Human Services Office of Faith and Community Services and Tony Cloud Communications.

This free event is especially designed for leaders and members of faith communities—but is open to all. Join us for a powerful morning with keynote speaker Tony Cloud, a nationally recognized trainer and former social services professional, as he shares insight on:

  • What the Bible says about mental health
  • Common myths and misunderstandings
  • How to recognize and respond when someone is struggling

Plus, connect with local faith-based and community service providers at our resource fair.

Here are the details:

When:

Thursday, May 8th, from 9:30am – 1:00pm

Where:

Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch Chapel
1732 South 72nd Street West
Billings, MT 59106

Event Schedule:

🕗 8:00am – Event & Resource Exhibit Set Up
🕤 9:30am – Resource Exhibits Open
🕙 10:00am –11:30am – Keynote Presentation: Safe Sacred Spaces
🕦 11:30am – 12:30pm – Resource Exhibits Open
🕐 1:00pm – Event Close

Want to Attend?

Reserve your spot by emailing HHSOFCBS@mt.gov.

Interested in Tabling?

Faith-based & community service providers can reserve free exhibit space. Email info@tonycloudcommunications.com to get a spot.

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Youth Wrap Up Volleyball Season with Match Against Staff

Youth Wrap Up Volleyball Season with Match Against Staff

Youth Wrap Up Volleyball Season with Match Against Staff

What a match! April 2nd marked the end of volleyball season at the Ranch, and our youth wrapped it up in style—with a spirited game against staff. In a close and exciting match, the staff team edged out a win with a final score of 25–21.

More Than Just a Volleyball Game

While the scoreboard showed a staff victory, the real wins this season came to the kids through the lessons learned on the court. Throughout the season, our youth practiced teamwork, communication, strategy, and perseverance—skills that extend far beyond the game.

From learning to collaborate with peers to encouraging each other through challenges, our volleyball season offered more than just physical activity. It created space for connection, growth, and a whole lot of fun.

We’re incredibly proud of the heart, hustle, and positive spirit our youth brought to every practice and game. And we’re grateful to the staff who stepped up—not just for the final match, but for encouraging and supporting the kids all season long.

🏐 Here’s to a season full of memories, movement, and moments that matter.

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6 Tips to Combat Caregiver Burnout

6 Tips to Combat Caregiver Burnout

6 Tips to Combat Caregiver Burnout

Feeling exhausted? You’re not alone.

In today’s world, caregiver burnout is more common than ever—especially for those juggling parenting, work, and the endless demands of life. Whether you’re a stay-at-home parent or balancing a full-time career with caregiving responsibilities, the emotional and physical toll adds up fast.

In fact, an article by Investopedia reports that stay-at-home parents work an average of 98 hours per week—and for working caregivers, that number only increases.

Without a strategy to manage stress and prevent caregiver burnout, it’s easy to run on empty. Here are six practical tips to help you recharge, protect your well-being, and bring your best self to those who depend on you.

Tips to Combat Caregiver Burnout

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Connect with others.

Social support is a must for parents! Studies show that when caregivers are connected and have an open dialogue on stress and burnout, it serves as a buffer against it. So, carve out time for friends, family, and build a tribe you can lean on.

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Re-evaluate your stress.

Mindset is a critical component of navigating stress. The truth is, how we look at our circumstances directly affects how they impact us. So, explore areas of your life that make you grateful. And if you’re confronting parenting challenges, ask yourself, “How can I use these as opportunities to grow?”

3-Make-small-changes.

Make small changes.

Do you feel trapped by your parenting responsibilities? If so, make small changes to help you manage stress over the long haul. For example, try delegating tasks among family members, cutting down on commitments, or scheduling carpools with other parents.

4-Let-go-of-perfectionism

Let go of perfectionism.

No one’s perfect. And when we shoot for such an unrealistic mark, we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves—creating stress and fostering feelings of shame when we don’t live up to our expectations.

So, drop the “should” statements and swap them for “it would be great if I had more energy to…” instead. Reframing like this will help you deal with your current reality rather than what you think it should be.

5-Take-microbreaks

Take microbreaks.

Self-care is a critical component of managing stress and burnout recovery. Yet, being a caregiver is a full-time job, so taking long breaks or vacations for yourself isn’t always realistic. But you can take tiny moments throughout your day.

Try sitting in your car to listen to a guided meditation after grocery shopping or going into the bathroom for five minutes to practice deep breathing to enhance your resilience.

6-Find-meaning

Find meaning.

Has stress brought you to the point of detachment? If so, take the time to re-explore and connect to your values.

What are the meaningful aspects of parenting? Don’t get lost in the drudgery of your role. Instead, dive deep, and don’t forget the purpose behind your work.

Need support?

We provide a wide range of wraparound mental health services that support caregivers and help kids heal. Contact us online to learn more about help available through Yellowstone Boys and Girls Ranch (YBGR).

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